Friends Don’t Always Use Words

Friends don’t always use words. If you communicate nonverbally you still communicate. You can still have friends even if you find conversation difficult.

Remember! Communicating nonverbally does not mean you cannot be a good friend or have friends! You have a lot to offer!

Sometimes it might take people a bit longer to get to know you. You will probably have to be patient. BUT you can help them too. If possible, smile. This will help them to relax. If they are having trouble, get someone who knows you to help them. Learning to communicate together can make your friendship stronger. You can also do things together that do not require talking.

Some People Communicate Without Speaking

When Rebecca is painting, she uses a light beam on a band on her forehead. She can point the light to the colour she wants by moving her head. Rebecca’s friend holds the paint brush and follows the light as Rebecca points it at the page.

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It is what is on the Inside that Counts!

Yasmin has a close friend that she made when they were in school. She says, “It doesn’t matter if a friends has a disability or not. It is what is on the inside that counts. We don’t see each other as often now, but our friendship is lasting. Whenever we meet it is as if almost no time has passed. People often feel this way when they know each other’s hearts!”

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Jeremy Uses “Facilitated Communication”

Jeremy uses “facilitated communication.” He uses a board with important words on it to talk to people. The board also has the alphabet on it too. Even though it takes a bit longer to say something, Jeremy still has a lot to say. His friends help him by paying attention. They need to be patient, but they like talking with Jeremy. He is a good listener. Friendship with Jeremy is something his friends value a lot!

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